среда, 24 августа 2011 г.

These are my ideas on how to meet new people

Sometimes people have a lot of potential friends in their lives, and they just need to do more to get out and start a relationship with them. But the opposite is also often a problem when you do not have many friends on the prospects. In this case, they must meet a few.

These are my ideas on how to meet new people. I think most of us find it easier to meet new people, when the ice is already broken by the circumstances. And basically we find it much more difficult to approach strangers. Almost settled areas of agreement, less intimidating high on the list.

Once you have met people take the initiative to invite them to spend time outside circumstances you met them in. This is to be proactive.

Before going into the many places to meet people, here are some general principles that I noticed:

You may need to experiment with some of the ways to meet people before they will work for you

I have no official statistics on this, but I would say that meeting people is one of those things 20/80. You can meet most of your new friends easily by a handful of options, while others will not really work for you at all. You can go to some events, and not really meet someone that you could get to know better. Or you find that making friends is technically possible, but logistically difficult and discouraging. Then you will participate in another club, and immediately and effortlessly to create an amazing group of friends. So do not be discouraged if your first attempts do not seem to get something rare.

Many ways to meet people are not perfect

Not everyone is a perfect way. Handicap you looking for the ideal conditions to meet people from below. Sometimes you have to work so-so instead you are treated you. For example, anyone can participate in dance lessons swing and the feeling is not enough to explore the opportunities for anyone, because they are always new people coming and going, and there is not much to talk about the possibilities. The situation can only be functional for them, such as the above came from. Or they can be successful if you stretch a bit ', say people still call even if it's the lowest percentage of the game, or coming before or stay later to create a time to talk to people.

You must have a certain tolerance for uncertainty, and rejection of

If someone is minimally safe and sociable, which should ultimately be able to meet new friends wherever they are. On the other hand, if you are too shy or too insecure or difficult, while none of the ways to meet people seems to work for them. If so, try to work on their problems and others.

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